Topic 1 of 5 · Mom Guilt

Put the guiltdown.

So much mom guilt comes from rules nobody ever wrote down. We name them, rip them up, and keep what's true.

Megan writing at her kitchen table with her son on her shoulders
Photo: Stessie Kelly Photography

rule I made up:

A good mom feels guilty when she's away.

Ripped. The truth now:

I can miss them and love my work.

Every unwritten rule has a truer one underneath. Find yours.

what we believe

1

Love is the fact.

Guilt is a feeling that passes. Your love for your kids stays.

2

Choose new rules.

The old rules came from somewhere. You get to write better ones.

3

All of it belongs.

Rest, work and fun all belong in a good mom's day.

start here

Every morning · 7:30 AM ET

The Morning Rip

One unwritten rule a day in my stories. I rip it. You reply with yours.

The carousel

Unwritten Rules

Six rules I made up about motherhood, and the truth I keep instead.

Oct 19 – Nov 1

Feed the fire

Write your rule. Say it. Pass the match. Rip it. Save the pieces for January 24.